Dan Aleias Cayabyab is a fourth year BS in Computer Science at the University of the Philippines Visayas. He is BLOG & ME’s guest blogger/writer for this week. He blogs for self-expression. He usually writes about love and his interests. Let’s all read his blog entitled “The Love Dilemma of Dan Aleias Cayabyab”.
What would happen if she rejected you and then asks for your help regarding her love life?
(Please apply cold water to burnt area) Ouch that hurts. That would be the most horrible thing that can happen. Who could’ve thought that you were the person she would go to when she will have problems on her love life? Nobody knows for sure. You can either ignore or help her. It will not be an easy decision but those are the two possible actions you can make.
Help her. she’s a damsel in distress!
A martyr’s choice, probably a stupid decision so ready your heart. You must be really kind for to do something like this. You can probably see that you are one of those that she can really trust for things like this, so you see no choice but to help her. You’re even breaking your own heart doing this but you do it so that you can see that smile again that was once on her face that you really like before her problem appeared. You will help her with anything that you can do despite knowing that she will never come to like you more than that of a friend. You’ll help just to make her feel happy, make her feel that you are still there, as her friend.
Ignore her, she shattered your heart!
Don’t help her. Let her feel what you felt when she rejected you. Let her feel that she chose the wrong person. Let her feel that she deserves it after rejecting you. I know it is harsh but please end that endless chain of suffering that you feel. Helping her only will only make you feel worse. She broke your heart remember? Why would you help her? Is it really worth it? You know the answer to that, NO. Let her fix her own problems, you got yours. Don’t help her. Ignore her. Be heartless, as she was. Make yourself feel better by just ignoring her call for help, let her find others that can help.
You can just have your own deductions on this kind of matter. This can be just a basis for your actions. Just remember no one can do this except you, but you can always ask from your best friends for help if you really don’t know what to do.
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